Saturday, August 20, 2011

SURVIVAL TIPS FOR MEDICAL STUDENT





Tip no. 1 - Thank Allah (God) for this golden opportunity. Allow yourself to be trained with the basic medical knowledge, skills, attitudes and behaviours that are essential for the profession. If you're a caring, responsible, unselfish and emphatic person, half the battle is won. If you're not, it's a long way ahead!

Tip no. 2 - Do not be afraid to make mistakes now. As students, you learn thro' your mistakes and corrections by your teachers. If you're scolded or criticized for your mistakes, be strong. You could only be hurt or affected as much as you have allowed yourself to be!

Tip no. 3 - Look forward for your exams, instead of being depressed over them. Two reasons for that; first - exams are TRADEMARK of medical schools (they are here to stay!), secondly - they serve as signboards, telling you how close (or how far) you're to the destiny. Enjoy & cherish them!

Tip no. 4 - Enhance your passion & hunger for knowledge. You might have your own learning style, but you can always switch your approach from superficial to deep. Learn because you really wanna know, not for simply passing exams (superficial approach)!

Tip no. 5 - Appreciate the cooperative patients who have agreed to allow you to examine them. Give them their due respect. Despite their pain and misery, they let you `disturb' their rest/sleep. Promise yourself that you will be a competent doctor one day, so all the patients' sacrifice for you would not go wasteful!

Tip no. 6 - Apply active participation in your learning process. Force yourself to come forward the next time your clinical teacher looks for a volunteer to clerk a patient, perform a physical exam, and assist in a procedure or operation. You will be rewarded with a great sense of achievement, much more than your passive friends - even if you gonna get some criticism/ negative feedback at the end.

 Tip no. 7 - Do not procrastinate, submit assignments before deadline. Do not postpone till the very last minute, no matter how tempting it is to delay. Put in your best effort in everything you do. Be exceptional, not just a mediocre!

Tip no. 8 - Ask questions, clarify any area of doubt. Make it a must to ask your teacher before a teaching session ends. Keep asking - there are no such things as stupid questions - only stupid answers! A lot of active, critical thinking must come before asking...it might be too much for some, eh? No wonder you all are no longer asking these days!

Tip no. 9 - Never leave God behind in your pursuit to be the men/women of medicine. As healers, we are the INSTRUMENT of God's mercy. Continue your strive to be close to Him, for you will definitely need Him endlessly. It is through your hands, words, eyes and smiles that God is going to cure and care for the sick and fallen. May you deserve such honour!

Tip no. 10 - Keep in touch with your parents & family. They're your best support. Update them with your progress. Include them into your busy, busy stressed-up life. Share with them your sorrow, but convince them that you'll be fine with their prayers tagged along.

 Tip no. 11 - Try your best to make your teachers feel respected and appreciated. Take what is good from them, whilst forgive them for their shortcomings. Assist your teachers by getting actively involved in teaching learning activities. Make them interactive, lively, fun and enjoyable. Help your teachers, they need you to be on board!

Tip no. 12 - Strengthen your friendship with peers, seniors & juniors. Don't be a loner. Help one another always. Study in a group, studying alone limits your understanding & perspective. The best way to learn is to teach! So, teach one another - you'll be amazed by the result of such teamwork.

 Tip no. 13 - Spend your holiday/semester break with your family. Visit your grandparents, uncles, aunts & cousins. Let them see the `new, better, matured' future family doctor whom they're so proud of. Impress them with your improved communication & interpersonal skills. Listen attentively to their complaints, groans & moans. Gently remind them, you're not yet licensed to treat...

Tip no. 14 - Manage your time wisely. Sleep early and wake up fresh. Do not compromise your sleeping time by spending too much time online. Chronic sleep deprivation will only result in higher level of stress! Stop the vicious cycle, NOW!

 Tip no. 15 - Pluck your courage to greet ALL your teachers when you meet them at the corridors/cafetaria/lifts etc. Don't expect them to remember your name, unless you're really exceptional. They might not be smiling back to you, but your consistent greetings will somewhat make your face familiar to them. At least they realize that you EXIST....and that really matters.

Tip no. 16 - Train yourself to serve others always. After all, medical profession is about public servitude. Your calling is to go all out to help, assist and facilitate others. Altruism (placing other's interest before one self) is the keystone of medicine. Without it, the whole arch of medicine collapses!

Tip no. 17 - Overcome your fear, sadness and uncertainties with constant reminder that what you're aiming for is not something ordinary. Training to be a medical doctor pushes you to your limits! Be warned, the sailing is not going to be smooth, it's an uphill climb, a lifelong commitment.

Tip no. 18 - Learn to be genuinely interested in your patient's life - not simply his/her diseases. Remember this equation : Patient = Person + Disease. While learning how to doctor the disease, never forget to doctor the PERSON, who is made up of body, mind, heart & soul.

Tip no. 19 - Jump out of the bed with enthusiasm and excitement each morning. Promise yourself that you're going to make full use of the many golden opportunities in front of you. Say your morning prayers consistently, without fail. Look into the mirror and say it out loud : I believe I can be a better person today, better than yesterday, InsyaAllah!

Tip no. 20 - Be emotionally intelligent. Manage your emotions wisely. Remember, emotion is the window to your thoughts. When you're feeling happy and motivated, you're thinking positive thoughts. When you're feeling down and demoralized, your head is full with negative thoughts. Ask yourself, how much do you want to ALLOW the trigger/stimulus to affect you emotionally...it's your own choice!

~Tips no. 1 -20 ( By Dr Harlina Halizah Siraj ; ex UKM medic student 1985 – 91)~



all the best medical students! especially  RCMP '10/'15! ^_^

Wednesday, August 17, 2011

pesan mak pasal IKHTILAT



*esok exam! ntah knape rase nk mencoret sesuatu jugak~*

ok sebenarnye, mood tgh rindu mak!

tapi tbe2 terfikir seperkara. sebab masa sekolah menengah dulu, mak slalu cakap, 'xpayah la kawan sgt dgn laki2'. tapi dulu aku agak masih xmatang, dan kurang faham kenapa mak slalu cakap mcm tu.

perkara yang jugak pernah aku bincangkn dengan beberapa org sahabat.
pasal masalah 'ikhtilat'. ikhtilat tu ape?
wujud ke ukhwah antara lelaki dan perempuan? hurmm cuba define dua2 tu. antara ukhwah dan ikhtilat? sila bezakan!



bila ditegur pasal ikhtilat, ade yg menjawab, 'aku bukan bercinta pun, aku berkawan je!

sebelum start apa2, harap2 x ade lah yang terasa ye dengan entri ni. sekadar satu perkongsian pendapat.

nak ikutkan dengan keadaan dunia sekarang ni, bagi aku, pergaulan antara lelaki dan perempuan ni, patut dititikberatkan. Kalau boleh biarlah bermula dari peringkat rendah .Dididik supaya dapat jaga pergaulan tu dari kecil, semoga mereka menjadi lebih terbiasa dengan keadaan sebegitu bila dah besar nanti.
macam mana? senang je, dengan perkara simple2, asingkan dari segi seat dalam kelas, library, kantin, bla3...

hurm yelah, sekarang ni, tgk budak2 darjah 4, 5 pon dah pandai nak bercintan cintun ni. siap sanggup sehidup semati bagai. apekahh -.-''

*xsindir sape2 pun, tapi peringatan untuk diri sendiri jugak yang masih lemah lagi kurang ilmunya.*

kita yang dah besar2 pun same jugak. bukan lah nak suh jadi extremist ke ape ke.
tapi at least jage lah sket diri tu sbg seorang perempuan. xpayah nak bertepuk tampar dgn bukan muhrim sgt lah!. xpayah nak keluar makan berduaan dgn yg bukan muhrim. xpayah jugak nak calling2 bagai utk urusan yang xberapa nak penting even message yang xpenting, sekadar untuk bergurau2? rase2, penting x?..


ALLAH SWT berfirman: “ Dan janganlah kamu mendekati zina, sesungguhnya(zina) itu adalah satu perbuatan yang keji, dan jalan yang buruk” Surah Al-Israa’ ayat 32.


hurm xtau lah, soal hukum2 ikhtilat tu, aku xpandai la nak terang detail2 nye.
mungkin anda boleh cari kat internet, banyak je ustaz2 yang tulis pasal ni.
contoh nye, langit Illahi,  bila kamu bising pasal iktilat.


*maaf, bukan ape. aku tahu xsemua lelaki macam ape yang aku nak cakapkan nih, tapi percaya lah, ade
boleh tahan ramai je laki macam yang aku nak cakapkan lepas ni. lelaki yang pantang dengan perempuan? erk! ape tu. hee.. xberani la nak cakap lebih2. cukup la aku cakap, lelaki ni sgt suke berilusi lebih2 (maaf org lelaki).

pernah x, ade sesiapa, dengar lelaki dengan lelaki berborak? berborak pasal perempuan? kalau xpernah, i think u should! g la dgr, pasang2 telinga ke. hee..  mesti korg terkejut nnt! n mesti korg akan lebih berhati2 dengan sesiapa je yg bergelar lelaki. skali lagi, tapi mungkin xsemua akan berborak seperti yang aku cakap tu.

ape2 pun, sayang2 muslimah ku sekalian, jom same2 betulkan diri, same2 jadikan diri ni nampak mcm muslimah yang sebenar,bukan hanya pada nama, tapi pada tutur kata, cara pemakaian, cara kita berikhtilat dan sebagainya lah.

bukan ape, kalau kita xboleh tolong diri sendiri, mcm mana nak tlg org lain, mcm mane nak tlg agama Allah kan. xpe, kalau xboleh ubah semua, kite ubah sikit2, yang penting sentiasa berusaha, ok?. ^_^

ke, kita dah memang xkisah dah dengan masalah dunia sekarang?
*k, xpayah jawab, jawab la pada diri sendiri.

sekian. =)

wallahualam




Sunday, August 7, 2011

‎(¯`*• MANUSIA..MALAIKAT..SYAITAN •*´¯)


Manusia - Eh, dah subuh dah?
Malaikat - Bangunlah wahai anak Adam, tunaikan solat subuh mu
Syaitan - Alahhhhhh, sekejaplah, mengantuk ni...awal lagi ni..zzZZz

Manusia - Nak makan, laparlah ..
Malaikat - Wahai Anak Adam, mulakanlah dengan Bismillah....
Syaitan - Ahh, tak payahlah... dah lapar ni ! makan saja..sedapnya

Manusia - Hari ni nak pakai apa ye?
Malaikat - Wahai anak Adam, pakailah pakaian yang menutup aurat.
Syaitan - Ehh, panaslah, tak ada style langsung, nampak kampung!

Manusia - Alamak, dah lewat!
Malaikat - Bersegeralah wahai manusia , nanti terlewat ke pejabat.
Syaitan - Ahhh? awal lagi?mmm..aaahh? suruh si X punchkanlah?

Manusia - Azan sudah kedengaran.. ..
Malaikat - Wahai anak Adam, bersegeralah menunaikan kewajipan
Syaitan - Baru pukul berapa.. rilex lah..awal lagi ni.

Manusia - Eh, eh.... tak boleh tengok ini, berdosa..
Malaikat - Wahai anak Adam, alihkanlah pandanganmu, sesungguhnya Allah Maha Melihat dan Maha Mengetahui !
Syaitan - Perggghh... best tu...rugi ooo kalau tak tengok ni.

Manusia - Saudaraku sedang melakukan dosa
Malaikat - Wahai anak Adam, cegahla ia..
Syaitan - Apa kau sibuk? Jangan jaga tepi kain orang, lantak dia lah

Manusia - Elok kalau aku sampaikan nasihat ini kepada orang lain
Malaikat - Wahai anak Adam, nasihat-menasihati lah sesama kamu..
Syaitan - Sendiri pikirlah, semua dah besar, buat apa susah2...pandai2 lah

Manusia - Aku telah berdosa..
Malaikat - Wahai anak Adam, bertaubatlah kamu, sesungguhnya Allah Maha Pengampun.
Syaitan - Tangguhlah dulu, lain kali boleh bertaubat... muda lagi kan..lagipun hidup hanya sekali..rugilah..(kalau sempatla)

Manusia - Kalau pergi, mesti seronok!
Malaikat - Wahai anak Adam, kakimu ingin melangkah ke jalan yang dimurkai Allah, berpalinglah dari jalan itu.
Syaitan - Jangan bimbang, tiada sesiapa yang tahu...Jomlahhh !

Manusia – Uuhhh..letihnya harini..tak solat lagi ni.
Malaikat - Wahai anak Adam, taatilah Allah dan RasulNYA, kebahagiaan di dunia dan akhirat untukmu. Solat itu wajib bagimu.
Syaitan - Hey anak Adam, ikutilah aku, kebahagiaan di dunia (sahaja) dan kebahagiaan diakhirat untukmu nanti ada juga (jangan mimpilah!)

Sekarang anda mempunyai 3 pilihan :
1. Anda – Patut ke aku biarkan article ini tetap di sini saja??
2. Malaikat - Ingatkan pada kawan yang anda kenal..sebarkan lah !
3. Syaitan - Tak payahlah sibuk2 ..biar je disini..kalau, boleh delete je..bukan mereka nak baca pon.

~Renung-renungkan dan selamat beramal~ =)))



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